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		<title>What’s Wrong with Instant Messenger?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 02:36:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Culture The short answer is nothing! However i am hearing more and more about companies either banning or strong suggesting that employees dont use messenger and other similar applications. This got me to thinking &#8211; why? For me, banning messenger is like banning the phone or email. I guess in days gone by bosses were [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=57&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p align="justify"><span>The short answer is nothing!  However i am hearing more and  more about companies either banning or strong suggesting that employees dont use  messenger and other similar applications.  This got me to thinking &#8211; why?</span></p>
<p align="justify"><span>For me, banning messenger is like banning the phone or email.   I guess in days gone by bosses were banning email and the internet however  imagine work life today without either of these. </span></p>
<p><span>The real issue is trust and understanding. </span></p>
<p align="justify"><span>For of all messenger is just a communications tool.  In many  ways no more intrusive than email or the phone.  However i think that many  managers are of the old school and think that if someone is using messenger then  they are not working.  How wrong.</span></p>
<p align="justify"><span>I once had a manager who banned messenger in his part of the  business.  In many ways this was the beginning of the end for him.  His team  felt like they were not trusted and therefore began to question why they were  there.  They went from a team that often went above and beyond to get the job  done to one that tended to watch the clock and not over extend themselves.   While banning messenger was not the sole cause, it did contribute and indicated  to the team what the manager really thought about them.</span></p>
<p><span>What compounded the problem was the selective people were allowed to use  messenger thus creating classes in the busines.</span></p>
<p><span>The real issue is trust and you need to trust people in your team to get on  with the job without having to strickly manage each of their interactions.   Sometimes people will take liberties however a simple discussion about what is  right or wrong is usually easier than blanked banning. </span></p>
<p><span>Put trust in your team and they will repay you many times over.</span></p>
<p><span>Source : myceolife<br />
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		<title>Is Life a bed of roses ?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2008 13:12:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is Life a bed of roses ? Roses are beautiful, even though they come with thorns; If you know your reason why you want to grow roses, You will not let the thorns hinder you from growing the flowers; Only then may all enjoy the smell &#38; the sight of the beautiful bed of roses. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=54&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#ff3300;"><strong></strong></span><span style="color:#ff3300;"><strong><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="color:#ff3300;"><span style="font-size:x-small;"><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><img src="//www.mindtransformations.com/Obj/NTP0306001/Images/rose.jpg" border="0" alt="" hspace="8" vspace="8" width="180" height="117" align="right" /></span></strong></span></span></span></strong></span><span style="color:#ff3300;"><strong>Is Life a bed of roses ?</strong></span><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="color:#ff3300;"><strong></strong></span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#ff0099;"><strong>Roses are beautiful, even though  they come with thorns;<br />
</strong></span>If you know your reason why you want  to grow roses,<br />
You will not let the thorns hinder you from growing the  flowers;<br />
Only then may all enjoy the smell &amp; the sight of the beautiful  bed of roses.</p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#ff0099;"><strong>Life is beautiful, even though it  comes with challenging  experiences.<br />
</strong></span>If you know your reason  &amp; purpose in this lifetime,<br />
You will not allow past negative experiences  to hinder you from growing.<br />
Only then may all enjoy the beauty, &amp; sight  of, a beautiful you.</p>
<p align="justify">I hope that everyone will find their journey a purposeful and  fulfilling one, like I have. And I sincerely thank Mind Transformations for  being the provider, like a gardener providing its tools &amp; nurture in the  Garden of Eden.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 03:01:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The signs of an imminent recession are all around us. The spillover from the subprime mortgage crisis is weakening both consumer confidence and the consumer spending&#8211;much of it on credit&#8211;that has been buoying our economy. Companies should bear eight factors in mind when making their marketing plans for 2008 and 2009: 1. Research the customer. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=51&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>The signs of an imminent recession are all around us. The  spillover from the subprime mortgage crisis is weakening both consumer  confidence and the consumer spending&#8211;much of it on credit&#8211;that has been  buoying our economy.</p>
<p>Companies should bear eight factors in mind when  making their marketing plans for 2008 and 2009:</p>
<p><strong>1. Research the  customer.</strong></div>
<div>Instead of cutting the market research budget, you need to  know more than ever how consumers are redefining value and responding to the  recession. Price elasticity curves are changing. Consumers take more time  searching for durable goods and negotiate harder at the point of sale. They are  more willing to postpone purchases, trade down, or buy less. Must-have features  of yesterday are today&#8217;s can-live-withouts. Trusted brands are especially valued  and they can still launch new products successfully but interest in new brands  and new categories fades. Conspicuous consumption becomes less  prevalent.</p>
<p><strong>2. Focus on family values.</strong></div>
<div>When economic hard times loom, we tend to retreat to our  village. Look for cozy hearth-and-home family scenes in advertising to replace  images of extreme sports, adventure and rugged individualism. Zany humor and  appeals on the basis of fear are out. Greeting card sales, telephone use and  discretionary spending on home furnishings and home entertainment will hold up  well, as uncertainty prompts us to stay at home but also stay connected with  family and friends.</p>
<p><strong>3. Maintain marketing spending.</strong></div>
<div>This is not the time to cut advertising. It is well  documented that brands that increase advertising during a recession, when  competitors are cutting back, can improve market share and return on investment  at lower cost than during good economic times. Uncertain consumers need the  reassurance of known brands&#8211;and more consumers at home watching television can  deliver higher than expected audiences at lower cost-per-thousand impressions.  Brands with deep pockets may be able to negotiate favourable advertising rates  and lock them in for several years. If you have to cut marketing spending, try  to maintain the frequency of advertisements by shifting from 30-to-15 second  advertisements, substituting radio for television advertising, or increasing the  use of direct marketing, which gives more immediate sales  impact.</p>
<p><strong>4. Adjust product portfolios.</strong></div>
<div>Marketers must reforecast demand for each item in their  product lines as consumers trade down to models that stress good value, such as  cars with fewer options. Tough times favour multi-purpose goods over specialised  products and weaker items in product lines should be pruned. In grocery-products  categories, good-quality own-brands gain at the expense of national brands.  Industrial customers prefer to see products and services unbundled and priced  separately. Gimmicks are out; reliability, durability, safety and performance  are in. New products, especially those that address the new consumer reality and  thereby put pressure on competitors, should still be introduced but advertising  should stress superior price performance, not corporate  image.</p>
<p><strong>5. Support distributors.</strong></div>
<div>In uncertain times, no one wants to tie up working capital in  excess inventories. Early-buy allowances, extended financing and generous return  policies motivate distributors to stock your full product line. This is  particularly true with unproven new products. Be careful about expanding  distribution to lower-priced channels; doing so can jeopardise existing  relationships and your brand image. However, now may be the time to drop your  weaker distributors and upgrade your sales force by recruiting those sacked by  other companies.</p>
<p><strong>6. Adjust pricing tactics.</strong></div>
<div>Customers will be shopping around for the best deals. You do  not necessarily have to cut list prices but you may need to offer more temporary  price promotions, reduce thresholds for quantity discounts, extend credit to  long-standing customers and price smaller pack sizes more aggressively. In tough  times, price cuts attract more consumer support than promotions such as  sweepstakes and mail-in offers.</p>
<p><strong>7. Stress market share.</strong></div>
<div>In all but a few technology categories where growth prospects  are strong, companies are in a battle for market share and, in some cases,  survival. Knowing your cost structure can ensure that any cuts or consolidation  initiatives will save the most money with minimum customer impact. Companies  such as Wal-Mart and Southwest Airlines, with strong positions and the most  productive cost structures in their industries, can expect to gain market share.  Other companies with healthy balance sheets can do so by acquiring weak  competitors.</p>
<p><strong>8. Emphasise core values.</strong></div>
<div>Although most companies are making employees redundant, chief  executives can cement the loyalty of those who remain by assuring employees that  the company has survived difficult times before, maintaining quality rather than  cutting corners and servicing existing customers rather than trying to be all  things to all people. CEOs must spend more time with customers and employees.  Economic recession can elevate the importance of the finance director&#8217;s balance  sheet over the marketing manager&#8217;s income statement. Managing working capital  can easily dominate managing customer relationships. CEOs must counter this.  Successful companies do not abandon their marketing strategies in a recession;  they adapt them.</p>
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</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. Spend Smarter</strong><br />
You may spend less  on marketing. Not because marketing should be cut first or most (it most  certainly should not), but rather because your company may cut budgets across  the board. In fact, by showing how you intend to spend smarter you will make it  easier to fight for your resources (see below). By “spend smarter”, I mean  create a clear-cut justification for the investment. While you won’t always be  able to measure the ROI (this is marketing after all), you can have your people  create a compelling business case for each investment. Then, when it comes time  to justify the investment, you will have established sound business reasoning  behind it. And that’s what the CEO and CFO need to see in a recession.</p>
<p><strong>2. Double-down on your current customers</strong><br />
Sure it’s  more fun to get new customers, but it’s more practical in a downturn to provide  more value (and get more in return) from your current customers. When customers  make decisions in a downturn, they’re more likely to go with a more trusted  source. If they’re more likely to go with you, then you want to make it easier  and more obvious to them to go with you. Market to them. Enable your sales teams  to be more effective with them. Ask current customers what they need from you.  Care for them and they will be even more likely to stick with you if the going  gets tough.</p>
<p><strong>3. Outsmart your competitors</strong><br />
You have  an opportunity to win market share from your competitors in a downturn. If you  pay close attention to what’s happening in your target markets and how customers  are reacting to a recession, you can act early and often with changes in product  (if you can change it quickly), price, and positioning (especially as perceived  needs change). For example, in the last technology downturn, software companies  became very creative in their pricing schema, creating many variations of  software as a service (SaaS) that enabled them to sell when their competitors  were stuck in an old paradigm.</p>
<p><strong>4. Invest in Growing Market  Segments</strong><br />
In every downturn there are market segments that grow  faster than others. It’s your job as a marketer to help your company see and  understand these market segments, and determine if you can quickly win business  in these fast-growing market segments. These may be segments you’re already  selling to, but not particularly focused on, or they may represent new segments  – and new opportunities for your company. At the same time, you want to reduce  your investments in the segments that will get hit the most in the downturn.</p>
<p><strong>5. Fight for Your Resources</strong><br />
As I’ve argued before  (see &#8220;CMOs as True Leaders&#8221; <a href="http://www.achievemarketleadership.com/?p=198" target="_blank">http://www.achievemarketleadership.com/?p=198</a>) it’s  marketing’s responsibility to drive strategic issues. In a recession, this  becomes even more important. Knee-jerk reactions of companies where the CMO is  not deeply involved in strategy, are often to cut budgets and people in  marketing disproportionately. This results in marketing playing a less important  role, and an extremely inefficient pendulum-swing of dollars and people that  result in being caught flat-footed and losing out to competitors very shortly  after the cuts are made. It’s marketing’s responsibility to fight for it’s  resources, and doing the four items above will help you win that  battle.</p>
<p>(Source : Collected from many sources)</p></div>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Wait Too Long to Become an Entrepreneur</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 02:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Posted by Noam Wasserman Are you one of the many executives who&#8217;d love to leave the corporate battleship to skipper a speedy, nimble start-up? And are you using a variety of rationales for why it&#8217;s not yet time to go? Reasons such as: I need to work on my resume, acquire more credibility, learn to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=48&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Posted by Noam Wasserman</p>
<div><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="color:#000000;">Are you one of the many executives who&#8217;d love to leave the corporate battleship  to skipper a speedy, nimble start-up? And are you using a variety of rationales  for why it&#8217;s not yet time to go?</p>
<p>Reasons such as: I need to work on my  resume, acquire more credibility, learn to manage better, figure out how  financing really works, maintain stability at home while my children are  young?</p>
<p>Those are legit reasons, of course, but while you&#8217;re waiting for  everything to fall into place, you&#8217;re acquiring big-company habits that can hurt  you if and when you ever make the move.</p>
<p>Long tenures in corporate jobs  keep you from becoming the self-reliant jack-of-all-trades that a new venture  requires. You get used to having HR specialists take care of HR issues for you,  finance aces prepare reports for you, and IT whizzes maintain the company  infrastructure. You become accustomed to delegating and to distancing yourself  from &#8220;real work&#8221; &#8212; a luxury that just isn&#8217;t possible in a  start-up.</p>
<p>Senior people in big companies are successful &#8220;because they  can manage a team,&#8221; Barry Nalls told me. He was the founder and CEO of Masergy,  a Texas-based telecom company he started after working for GTE for a quarter  century. But &#8220;in an early-stage company, there&#8217;s no such thing as a manager.</p>
<p>&#8220;Everyone is a contributor, including the CEO.&#8221; The backers of his  start-up coached him not to hire people &#8220;who can only be successful if they have  a team around them.&#8221; Another founder-CEO, when describing his own first hire  from a big company, complained, &#8220;He wasn&#8217;t comfortable creating something from  nothing. It&#8217;s like if you have a crank, he can crank, but he can&#8217;t actually  build the crank. Building something from nothing requires a different skill  set.&#8221;</p>
<p>Entrepreneurs are more effective at building ventures from scratch  once they have attained a certain level of maturity and self-knowledge, but they  can achieve this without spending most of their working lives in corporate jobs.</p>
<p>In my research on thousands of founders of high-potential ventures that  had succeeded in raising capital from professional investors, 76% of  founder-CEOs had worked for 20 years or less before founding their first  ventures &#8212; they had made the leap by the time they were in their early 40s.</p>
<p>Waiting for the &#8220;perfect time&#8221; to make the jump is usually futile, for  there&#8217;s no moment that&#8217;s truly perfect. So even if you&#8217;re early in your  corporate career, when a winning new-business idea comes along and sparks an  entrepreneurial passion in you, carpe diem.</p>
<p>Noam Wasserman  (</p>
<p></span><a href="mailto:nwasserman@hbs.edu" target="_blank">nwasserman@hbs.edu</a><span style="color:#000000;">) is an associate  professor at Harvard Business School in Boston. He blogs about his research on  founders at </span><a href="http://founderresearch.blogspot.com./" target="_blank">http://founderresearch.blogspot.com.</a></span></div>
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		<title>Leadership is a Series of Conversations</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 05:26:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Selvy Riana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leadership is an interactive conversation that pulls people toward becoming comfortable with the language of personal responsibility and commitment. Since &#8216;coaching&#8217; is a leadership competency, here are five principles that guide respectful conversations. 1. When peers connect change happens. Effective coaching can happen on the dance floor of conversation. 2. It&#8217;s OK to begin a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=45&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leadership is an interactive conversation that pulls people toward<br />
becoming comfortable with the language of personal responsibility<br />
and commitment.</p>
<p>Since &#8216;coaching&#8217; is a leadership competency, here are five principles<br />
that guide respectful conversations.</p>
<p>1. When peers connect change happens.  Effective coaching can<br />
happen on the dance floor of conversation.</p>
<p>2. It&#8217;s OK to begin a conversation by confronting the other person<br />
with questions that seem awkward but set the stage for a respectful<br />
exchange.  Why waste time on small talk? Just ask to-the-point<br />
information-seeking questions, like: &#8216;What are you here for?<br />
How do you want to spend our time together?&#8217;</p>
<p>3. Conversations are not meant to be structured.  Be open to<br />
conversations that you are unprepared for and focused on the<br />
interests of the other person (not your purpose).</p>
<p>4. Don&#8217;t get pulled into solving problems that may not matter to<br />
the other person.  Allow time for the person to get to what&#8217;s really<br />
important.  Provide spaces where they can express their doubts and<br />
fears by being a thoughtful listener&#8211;without taking on the responsibility<br />
to fix or debate the issue.  After all, you have invited the person to talk<br />
about what matters to her or him, not you, so allow time for the<br />
articulation of those thoughts and feelings.</p>
<p>5. Personal transformation happens when the right questions get<br />
asked&#8211;not by providing answers.  When you focus on the solution,<br />
you are trying to sell the person something.  When you allow people<br />
to answer their own questions, they discover what they were not aware<br />
of&#8212;and what is needed to move forward.</p>
<p>Personal transformation leads corporate transformation&#8211;one person<br />
at a time.</p>
<p>Source/Writer : John G. Agno</p>
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		<title>The 30 Minute Meeting</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 06:44:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How often is it that you get invited to a meeting that goes on and on and on.  You get there and there is no formal agenda, the other attendees are late, some don’t know why they have been invited, there is no real leader of the meeting and an hour or so later you [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=43&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="entry" align="justify"><span><span style="font-size:x-small;">How often is it that you get invited  to a meeting that goes on and on and on.  You get there and there is no formal  agenda, the other attendees are late, some don’t know why they have been  invited, there is no real leader of the meeting and an hour or so later you  leave with no real outcomes and you are left wondering what that was all  about.</span></span></p>
<p class="entry" align="justify"><span><span style="font-size:x-small;">Well i think there should be a  different approach &#8211; the 30 minute meeting.  In fact, if it can be shorter,  thats even better. </span></span></p>
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<p class="entry" align="justify"><span><span style="font-size:x-small;">If someone wants to have a meeting  with me, i generally allocate 30 min to the meeting and ensure that there is  another one right after it &#8211; saves me going over.  In the meeting i usually like  the person who has called the meeting to have an agenda and a clear outcome they  want from the meeting.  I am not a big fan of presentations, i just want to know  the facts.  Long power point presentations may impress some but i generally skip  ahead if given the presentation on paper.</span></span></p>
<p class="entry" align="justify"><span><span style="font-size:x-small;">I tend to find it a bit “sucky” when  people present whizz bang high tech presentations &#8211; as it usually means they  have spent more time moving pixels around the screen than actually thinking  about what it is they are trying to say. </span></span></p>
<p class="entry" align="justify"><span><span style="font-size:x-small;">Finally, i always try to make a  decision by the end of the meeting.  I think that it is important that people  have clear direction and can get on with it.  Now these decisions are not always  right and sometimes are driven by gut feel more than anything. However i will  take 7 or 8 out of 10 decisions being right any day.</span></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In medicine you look at how &#8220;well tolerated&#8221; a drug will be related to its side effects.  At work and at home, many people evaluate new opportunities related to what can be well tolerated. Yet after life, most people don&#8217;t want their tombstone to read, &#8220;He tolerated stuff for other people because they paid him.&#8221;  Especially, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=41&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">In  medicine you look at how &#8220;well tolerated&#8221; a drug will be related to its side  effects.  At work and at home, many people evaluate new opportunities related to  what can be well tolerated. Yet after life, most people don&#8217;t want their  tombstone to read, &#8220;He tolerated stuff for other people because they paid him.&#8221;   Especially, when we realize that we can make more money and have more fun doing  work that engages our passions.  Life is too short for doing work you don&#8217;t  enjoy for people you don&#8217;t respect.<br />
</span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#008000;"><img src="//home.att.net/~signatureseries/images/Rollup.gif" alt="" width="64" height="54" align="bottom" /> </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;"><em>&#8220;No man is born into the  world whose work is not born with him.&#8221; James Russell Lowell </em></span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">The  message is: </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">Life is not a dress  rehearsal. You can solve your problems using the mind you know you have. You can  stop seeking answers outside yourself. You can look within.</span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;">Source : home.att.net</span></p>
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		<title>What is life?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 01:58:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In highly developed countries, there is a growing percentage of people thinking about the meaning of life. This genuine spiritual concern is broader than traditional views of religion practiced in numerous countries of the world. Yet, it is unclear to most how they want to live their life in a meaningful way. A Redirection of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=39&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">In highly developed countries,  there is a growing percentage of people thinking about the </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">meaning of life</span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">. This genuine spiritual concern is broader than traditional views  of religion practiced in numerous countries of the world. Yet, it is unclear to  most how they want to live their life in a meaningful way.</span></span></p>
<h3><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">A Redirection of  Focus</span></span></h3>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">A Newsweek-Beliefnet poll  taken in August 2005 reveals that of 1,004 Americans, 55 percent consider  themselves &#8220;religious and spiritual,&#8221; while another 24 percent describe  themselves as &#8220;spiritual.&#8221; Two thirds say they pray daily and a third meditate.  Prayer, meditation, chanting, visualization are all about focusing attention to  achieve a higher level of consciousness.</span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">You can use the power of your  thoughts to focus on potentially positive outcomes, instead of potentially  negative ones, and change your life. Is it time to turn your attention toward  intentions you&#8217;d really like to make happen?</span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">Marlee Matlin, the <em>&#8220;What  the Bleep Do We Know!?&#8221;</em> movie actress who portrays the young woman learning  how to apply the power of intention in her own life, says, &#8220;I&#8217;ve learned to  eliminate things that don&#8217;t give me good energy. Some of us want to overcome our  addictions, and some like them. It all depends on who you are and who you want  to be.&#8221;</span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">&#8220;I&#8217;ll be happy when&#8230;.&#8221; is  the way many people think they are living their lives. Yet, happiness is not  something that happens to you. Happiness is inside you now. You are motivated  from within. You only have to allow happiness to surface.</span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">Happiness </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">= K (knowing  who you are) X D (discovering your life&#8217;s work) X L (learning not to tolerate  what&#8217;s not important).</span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="color:#000080;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">That&#8217;s </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">Coach John Agno&#8217;s </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">formula for happiness&#8211;know yourself, your true calling and that  you get what you tolerate.</span></span></p>
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		<title>Born to be happy ?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 01:47:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The circumstances in life have precious little to do with the satisfaction we experience. Married churchgoers tend to outscore single nonbelievers in happiness surveys, but health, wealth, good looks and status have astonishingly little effect on what the researchers call &#8220;subjective well-being.&#8221; Psychologists have amassed a heap of data on what people who deem themselves [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=selvyriana.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3277480&amp;post=37&amp;subd=selvyriana&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">The circumstances in life have  precious little to do with the satisfaction we experience. Married churchgoers  tend to outscore single nonbelievers in happiness surveys, but health, wealth,  good looks and status have astonishingly little effect on what the researchers  call &#8220;subjective well-being.&#8221; </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;"></p>
<p></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Psychologists have amassed a  heap of data on what people who deem themselves happy have in common. Mood and  temperament have a</span><span style="font-family:Verdana;"> </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">large genetic component. In a now famous 1996 study, University of  Minnesota psychologists David Lykken and Auke Tellegen surveyed 732 pairs of  identical twins and found them closely matched for adult happiness, regardless  of whether they&#8217;d grown up together or apart. Such findings suggest that while  we all experience ups and downs, our moods revolve around the emotional  baselines or &#8220;set points&#8221; we&#8217;re born with. </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;"></p>
<p></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">In his book,  &#8220;Authentic Happiness&#8221; (Free Press), University of Pennsylvania psychologist  Martin E.P. Seligman tells us that happiness is not about maximizing utility or  managing our moods. It&#8217;s about outgrowing our obsessive concern with how we  feel. He says, &#8220;The time has arrived for a science that seeks to understand  positive emotion, build strength and virtue, and provide guideposts for finding  what Aristotle called the &#8216;good life&#8217;.&#8221; </span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;"></p>
<p></span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Beyond pleasure lies what he  terms &#8220;gratification,&#8221; the enduring fulfillment that comes from developing one&#8217;s  strengths and putting them to positive use. Half of us may lack the genes for  bubbly good cheer, he reasons, but no one lacks nascent strengths or the  capacity to nurture them.</span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;"><br />
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</span><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Source: The Science of Happiness by Geoffrey Cowley (with  Anne Underwood) in Newsweek, September 16, 2002</span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;"><em>There is an ancient tale of  happiness that appears in many cultures, and it goes something like this: Once  there was a prince who was terribly unhappy. The king dispatched messengers to  find the shirt of a happy man, as his advisers told him that was the only cure.  They finally encountered a poor farmer who was supremely content. </em></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;"><em>Alas, the happy man owned  no shirt.</em></span></p>
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<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">&#8220;Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length.&#8221; </span></div>
<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000066;">Robert Frost</span></div>
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